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Prayers for Those EDGE Kids and Teens Who Can’t Keep Still!

We are circled around the altar at home as my parents, sister, grandparents, uncle, and I recite the Our Father, ten Hail Marys, and the Glory Be at the end of each decade. As we progress through the rosary, my grandmother picks up the pace, my dad begins nodding off, my sister and I continue to bicker beneath our breaths silently, and everyone else slowly transforms into robots as we mechanically repeat each word of these traditional prayers. We prayed the rosary every night when I was a child, and every night I complained and struggled through it. I often thought, “Is this what prayer is? I hate sitting here saying the same things over and over again. Why can’t we do something else…anything else!

Many of our EDGE kids, teens, and even adults find it challenging to be still during prayer, and as a result, they frequently give up before they even have a chance to start. God knows our hearts. He knows our limitations as well as our strengths, and He reaches out to each of us in a way that we can understand. In His great wisdom, He gives us a myriad of ways to connect with Him and grow in holiness. Here are but a few examples you can share with your EDGE kids, teens, and Core leaders of how we can spend time with God while remaining active:

Listen to Catholic podcasts while running, driving, or doing chores

These podcasts come in many forms: homilies given by inspiring priests, reflections on bible readings, meditations like the rosary and divine mercy chaplet, talks given by Catholic speakers regarding the spiritual life, and more. Podcasts such as these can be effective ways to hear God’s voice. They can be a source of spiritual and moral edification, healing, hope, and love. Podcasts are perfect for the active Catholic young and old because it is portable! Just put your earbuds in and allow God’s voice to come through during your run or even while you’re gardening. It’s amazing just how much you’ll grow in holiness by tuning in!

Rosary walks and Soul Core

After some reflection, I realized that I disliked the rosary as a child because I didn’t understand what it was and why we were praying it. The rosary is a beautiful way to meditate and reflect on the life of Christ and His holy Mother. Have you ever looked through one of your photo albums or the pictures you have posted on social media to remember a great time in your life or relive moments that had touched you dearly? This is what the rosary is! Each decade is dedicated to remembering, meditating on, and reliving a moment in the life of Christ. Like His agony in the garden found in the sorrowful mysteries, or His transfiguration found in the luminous mysteries.

Rosary walks and Soul Core are different exercises that incorporate the rosary. A rosary walk is precisely that— praying the rosary while taking a brisk walk outside. Soul Core is a program that combines the rosary with aerobic exercises. It coordinates body movements and postures with our traditional prayers.

Whether going on a rosary walk or praying with Soul Core, imagine yourself in each of these mysteries or moments in Christ’s life and ponder the following questions, “How does this moment affect me today? What can I learn from it? What are my feelings or reactions to it?” Learning how to pray the rosary with the intention of reflecting and meditating on the life of Christ will help you to come to know Him better, and more importantly, help you fall deeper in love with Him.

Working Prayers

At this point, you may ask, “But Carrell, how about me? You know, the always busy youth minister or the always-on-the-go teen with 5 AP classes, sports practice, and drama club?”

Prayer is spending time with God— being with Him, listening to Him, talking to Him, walking with Him, and yes, even being at work with Him. Think of prayer as natural as taking a breath because God is truly present everywhere, in everyone, and at every moment in time. While you are brushing your teeth, for example, ask God to help make you clean. When you are picking up your child from school, thank God for always being there to pick you up whenever you need Him or need a ride to Heaven! When one of your co-workers or Core leaders is frustrating you, call to mind the patience, love, and mercy God has for you and try to emulate Him. No matter how busy you are, each moment can be an opportunity to call to mind our loving Father who wants to be with you in the here and now.

These methods of praying are not to replace spending undivided time with God in silence, contemplation, adoration, and at the Holy Mass. They are merely helpful ways to begin to incorporate God in all that you do, whether at rest or…not.

About the Author

Carrell Jamilano

Carrell is a spiritual director, TV cohost, and the author of “The Alluring Voice of God: Forming Daily Encounters.” When she is not busy having tea parties or playing dress-up with her exuberant daughter, you can find her blogging at CatholicSpiritualDirector.com or on Instagram/Twitter @CarrellJamilano.

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