Christina Mead

Stop Comparing: Jesus Doesn’t Like It

You know what will get you absolutely nowhere? Comparing yourself to other people. It's pointless and Jesus doesn't like it. I know He's not a fan because He isn't comparing us to everyone else (Psalm 139:14).

So why on earth do I want to compare myself to other people? I take that back. I don't want to . . . my mind is obliged to compare myself to everyone. (Okay, so maybe that's slightly dramatic.)

Last week I ran in a race and a couple times I was reduced to the 'I feel hot and nauseous; I'm so over this' jog that is very slow (if you've never experienced it for yourself). And you know who did NOT motivate me? The 70 year old next to me who was speed walking at the same (if not a faster) pace than me. Come on. Really?

It's in moments like this, and other times when I feel like I'm not good enough, that I ask myself, 'Why can't I be more like that person? They must be so much better than I am.'

But . . .

  • What if St. Therese only wanted to be like St. Clare?
  • What if there were no soccer players because they all thought football was cooler?
  • What if everyone thought plaid or neon was cool so no one wore anything else? (Wait, bad example – that may or may not be actually happening.)
  • What if we had no doctors because everyone just had to be interior designers?

The point is that God made us different and it just doesn't help to compare yourself to other people. So let's just stop. There will always be someone better than you at something. There will always be someone who you think it more attractive than you, or who in your mind has better talents. You have to constantly remind yourself of the truth that you are enough just as you are.

I have a hard time with comparing myself to everyone . . . in just about any situation. But I am uniquely me for a reason. You're you for a reason. And Jesus wants us that way. Jesus doesn't compare us because He's so in love with who we are right now. Let's ask for the grace to see ourselves like He sees us.

'If you are who you should be you will set the world on fire.' St. Catherine of Siena

I'm praying for you.

Christina Mead

About the Author

I'm just trying to figure out how to be holy so I can get to heaven, where I want to be the patron saint of lifeguards. My perfect day includes a nap, my gold shoes, a game of scrabble, gluten free brownies, absolutely no surprises, and a great phone conversation. If you want, you can email me at [email protected], or follow me on Twitter at LT_Christina.